I think that it is okay to take a time to state how you truely feel. Are you saying it still? Just wondering. I think it would be best if it is not said at all, at least until she gets to the point that she really does love you again, fully.

I totally understand why you want to send the flowers. That makes perfect sense. Just be careful. I don't think it would be a good idea for her to see you "competing" for her. I don't know. I'm just thinking she might feel pressured or something.

I hope some other DB members will reply to your sitch again. I'm not a veteran by all means, but I did use the techniques and they worked for me. So I have a little experience.

Keep up the good work, it sounds like your doing much better now, and I'm glad to hear it.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."