KABOOOOMMM

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I am so sorry to hear this. And I appologize for not checking in on you. I've been really working on my own and I've been visiting fam for a month while he figured stuff out.

I do know that my H came around. Maybe it was because the OW lived in another state so he couldn't just see her whenever and that benefited me, (it lasted almost exactly 6 months like the book mentions!) And he told me that he noticed my changes and was making sure it wasn't just me out of a book, but the real me. But he's still lived with me most of this time, so I was able to show my changes more easily than you.

I am really sorry about how things have unfolded. Sometimes we can "fix" ourselves, but our Spouse just won't "fix" themselves. We can't make them do anything.

I would think that maybe you shouldn't file for divorce, because then you would have to start paying child support right? You can continue with your new life and if in the meantime you happen to find someone perfect, you could think about filing? Also, whos to say that if she does move in with the OM they won't get along as well as they thought (especially with kids being involved) and she will see things in a new light.

But whatever you do, remember that God has turned this horrible disgusting thing into something good. You would never be the man you are now, if it hadn't been for all this. You are going to become someone great, successful, and strong, and someone your children will hope to become or marry someone like!!!

You are a wonderful guy, and keep making yourself a better person and continue to rely and trust on God to get you through.

In Christ Love,
Crissy