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I haven't posted on my sitch because sometimes I feel like updating it constantly has kept me focused on her and not on myself.



I totally agree with you on this one. My main reason for using this is first for help, and second to just let it out. It's kinda like a journal for me, but guess I can't really do it anymore since H found it. oh well.

Glad to hear your doing well- I've even thought about the tattoo thing too. had wanted one a long time ago, but opted for the belly ring. My H got a tattoo during all this. I swear he's in an MLC, but who knows.

oh in regards to her lies. My H is still lying to me. I told him I know there are still lies, and that he can't hurt me anymore and when he's ready to be truthful I will listen. Of course I may never know the whole truth.

I remember reading, when the WOS (walkoutspouse?) is in the middle of whatever they're going thru, you can only really believe half of what they say. I think I read that in the DB book?

Good Luck to you!

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."