Thank you....that is the post I've been waiting to raed. I know what the right thing to do is. I just wanted somebody...anybody...to confirm it for me. We have spoken and seem to be coming to an agreement between the two of us that would allow her and the kids to stay there. I would only be allowed to come if invited. and would only call her for the kids. I know at this point it is the right thing to do, maybe my only real option. thank you for setting me straight.
