pmd - this is from your 1st thread - your 1st POST - in your own words:
Quote: Anyway on this night I woke her out of a dead sleep by kicking the bed and basically dragging her out of bed. We immediatly seperated, I moved into my parents. She is now scared to death of me. However, I moved back in, But things still weren't right so about 4 weeks ago I moved out again. Then the other day I finally hit rock bottom when I went over there and we fought, I got mad...punched a cabinet...broke my hand.
You've also stated again and again that your W has requested that YOU LEAVE HER ALONE. Instead you have tried to force your way back into the house...what do you think you're doing to this woman? She's asked, no TOLD you - to give her some space and you show a complete disregard for what she's asking you. Forcing your way back into a place where she clearly does not want you is not conducive to repairing your M. I'm sorry, but it's not.
Throughout your posts, you've BLAMED her for everything...you BLAME her for everything, you've blamed it on post-partum depression; you've blamed it on bi-polar disorder - everything, except possibly accepting some of the blame yourself.
You say you want what's best for the kids. By forcing your way back into the home you're going to back your wife into a corner and she is going to run...and take the kids. And why shouldn't she? She's told you that and you still don't show any respect for her feelings. If you want to do what's best for the kids, stay out of the house - for now. Let your W and kids reside there until things calm down. Work harder on yourself. Get legal counsel regarding the paper she wants you to sign. You don't have to sign anything away....but you do need to give her what she's asking for now or you will have no chance with her again future.
