I have never layed a hand on her. I have been angry on a few occasions but never to the point where I have hit her. I would never do that. I do know that by signing this i would be unable to even go to the house. I am just trying to find a possible solution so that noone is hurt. I would really like to settle this between the two of us and not ahve a court involved at all. I think that she does have fear towards me but I also belive it is misplaced and blown way out of proportion. I have told her that she needs to seek counseling but she insists all she needs is for me to leave her alone. My main objective is what is best for the kids. W now has no job, therefore no money so I may be taken for even more at court. I just don't want to portray her in a bad light in court if I don't have to. I came here looking for advice from people who are in the DBing boat with me and I thank those who have responded you've given me a little more to think about. Anyone else have an opinion on this?
