Again, I still agree with shippd. I'm wondering if she has expressed some fear issues with OM or even her family, and they have encouraged it and made it grow to a new dimension. Other people can influence you greatly, even to think your feeling something that your really not-especially at such a vulnerable state.
Giving you the benefit of the doubt, and the fact that your on this website trying your best, I would believe you that you've never layed a hand on her. However, I'm thinking (from previous posts) that you may have displayed your anger to her on several occassions. I know in the past my H once displayed real anger to me, and it frightened me and I thought he might do something, even though he had never hurt me physically in any way. So she probably does have some real fear issues if you had been showing anger towards her. However, that does not mean you should be expected to sign this paper just so she feels better.
Listen, your wife has stepped out on a limb that you had previously assumed she would never step out onto, so who knows what she could do next. She is not herself right now, and I would bet she is letting other people persuade her, especially when she is only "seeing" the bad side of you and therefore her description of you to others is very distorted and they could be encouraging her to do who knows what.
Be very careful and protect yourself. If you get put in jail, and signing that paper would make it very possible, I would think it would make it harder for you to get custody.
You can still set some boundaries, and this could be one of them.
alright, I'm not sure if i helped any, but good luck
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
