She has filed for custody of the kids, as well a a protection order against me. We spent today trying to come to an agreement between the two of us before it gets to court. That is what this is about. She would maintain residency at the house. We would split the week with the kids. I would have no right to come to the house unless invited or call her unless it pertained to the kids. She says she is deathly afraid of me. She begged me to put something in writing just to give her peace of mind. She ahs lied to me before i belive, but I could see the fear in her toady...she was in tears most of the time and was even shaking at one point. My gut says to give her this little bit and alow her to get over this fear. I really don't know what to do. She says if I don't sign some form of agreement that she is taking the kids to a shelter...I don't want the kids at a shelter. Also if she does that I think my SD9 would be at her dads...so that would split up the kids...I don't want that. I do know..at leats I think that i would win if we went to court but I also don't want to drag her through the mud.
Please I need help here, my whole family seems to be prodivorce in this case and I really don't want that. I almost feel like I am at the last resort idea and signing this may be it.
