To expand a bit, PMD, I feel that Mars/Venus and 5 LL's both do a GREAT job of illustrating just how much we fail to understand the ones we love and how that misunderstanding leads to SO much turmoil in our lives. I think, maybe even more than DB, which I credit for getting me on the "growth" track in the first place, these two books are the ones that give me hope that IF my marriage does survive, I now have the tools to make it MUCH better than before.
