I went to lawyer today. He said that unless there is a documented issue of violence thath she can NOT keep me from moving back into the house. He said I have to very carefull not to let her trap me into a fight, but as long as I remain calm and make no threats to anyone that she can't keep me from the house. So tommorrow night I'm moving back in. That will not sit well with her at all and she will call the cops when I show up. My lawyer advised me to contact them in advance so that they know the situation and to advise them that I received legal counsel that said i can move in.
Probably shouldn't have but I gave W a set of earings today, I told her that it was because she had such a bad day yesterday and now for any other reason. I just wanted her to be able to have something positive to look at if things don't go right today. Maybe not the best idea from a DBing standpoint but tommorrow when I move in any progress I've made that wasn't already lost will be lost.
In reading the love language book I started to notice a few things I could have done differently. When we would go to Wal-Mart I would always go off and do my own thing...so I asked her if that bothered her and sure enough it did. She always wanted me to staty up just a little bit later and I could never see why...now I know, she just wanted to spend time. Hopefully I will be able to put these ideas into practice in the future.
