My decision to move back in is becoming a non-decision. I feel now that I have no choice. My children are suffering. I spoke with S5's teacher today and she says he averages 3-4 tardies per week. Sometimes not coming in until 11:00. So then I contacted the office at his school and got the exact numbers. He has been absent and tardy more times since I moved out in march than he was the entire time leading up to that. W is clearly having a hard time handling things on her own and I can't continue to let it effect the kids.
W picked D3 up early today. She was in tears, saying her boss is teating her like Sh##. She was saying how she can't take anymore of people "sh##ing on her". Then started into how I keep calling her a liar about whether OM lives there or not. That seemed to be her focus. So once again here we are with everything being my fault.
On the plus side of things I picked up a copy of Five Languages of Love today and it is quite the book. I am very impressed so far. I've made it through all of the languages and am into the part that helps decide wich is your language. I think mine is words of Affirmation. I believe W's is Quality time. So I think it would better suit my DBing efforts if I hadn't left the house in the first place. It is kinda hard to spend time (which would be a huge 180 for me) when you don't live together.
