Okay, I was talking with my mom earlier trying to get some advice as to what I should do. She came up with an interesting theory regarding my wife and her attitude towards me. She suggested that maybe my wife has been suffering from post partum depression. I don't know though because our youngest will be 4 this august. But alot has changed since she was born, I guess I just never noticed. Everyone in the family has said that my W's attitude changed right around that time frame. Our house was always spotless before D was born but since it is always dirty...the house looks like hell right now. Plus my wife never wanted a third child and she blamed me for the unwanted pregnancy because I did want more. Does this all sound off base or is it possible she is still holding resentment for the pregnancy and has tied that to our marital problems. Can this type of depression go on this long if it goes untreated/undiagnosed? I have mentioned that I've been worried about my W lately, that I think she's depressed...but maybe it's been going on all along and I never caught it.
