Okay this is where the R is at this point. She has an admitted boyfriend. We had the huge blow up. I'm standing my ground about not paying for the house as long as she continues to allow him to be there. We have fought quite abit about custody of the kids, I think I cold win it just depends on how dirty I want to be. I really don't want it to get to a point where we are in court but I'm not sure I can prevent that now. My plan for tommorrow if I'm still getting the kids is to apologize for being so rude and mean the last two days but that it doesn't change my opinions or stance on the issues just that I'm sorry about the way I handled it.
With all the other things I have going on (School, Reserves, Job closing) I don't think I can handle figthing in court.
I know the best thing I can do at this point is nothing. Focus on myself and move on. BUT is this still salvagable, are there any success stories out there similar to my sitch?
