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[Jamesjohn]

Have you had your "financial talk" yet? It's not anti-DB to do so. (Might want to wait for a day or 2 now before you go there!)

You probably don't want to just quit paying stuff, though. Especially the house. I did that after I found out om was here, told my wife if he was living here, he could pay his share. Ended up that none of it got paid, and I played heck trying to get it all caught back up to date.