She won't see this as a 180, I've had a hard time controling my anger in the past and she thinks that I was just freaking out, she even called my C so he could call and calm me down.
Lately I have been kinda letting her get away with stuff as far as the OM goes. I haven't really blown up when the kids talk him up, or when I found out he's going to family picnics. This was the first time I've blown up in a while. I think I've controlled my self well and turned the other cheek when most men wouldn't. She won't see it that way though. What else could I do, I think it's completely inappropriate for him to be there when no one else is. I told her I'm not paying for her to play house anymore. old her she made these decisions and hasn't had to face the consequences but now she's going to.
