Re: Lil: Lots of deep/serious theories being presented on several threads.
On another thread I read Here's some stuff I found on control-- kinda scary: and found it insightful that so many avoiding behaviors could be considered controlling.
Lou, I assure you, these women, though a couple of years shy of 60, are sexy, fun, radiant, and brimming over with Life Force! (BB's stuff about being "too old" is HER stuff-- NOT typical in my experience.) That is what I see too. Sixty is not as old now as it was in the 50's and early 60's when people did not take care of themselves as well.
I was dazzled by how beautiful everyone was, how confident, how accomplished, how spiritual, and especially how loving. The room was just vibrating with love... it was unbelievable and way exceeded my expectations. I head that when people used to go to reunions of the 10 year mark, some people were seeing who was making it and who was lagging.
When reunions were past the 35 year mark it was more about being glad to see old friends and cherishing them as long lost friends.
I never went to a class reunion, so I don't know much about them.
my bf WAS the best looking guy there- LOL! And he was a great date... very charming, talked to lots of people, didn't act bored, That is good to hear. I am glad he went with you.
Anyway, so many good things posted on the threads this A.M. You are a real asset to the forum Lil.
