this line of hairdog's and your sig line is really part of the problem some of us people who want to be nice have that blocks progress.

Well, I guess that depends on how one defines "nice" Lou. Is it really being nice to say or do one thing but think a complete other, have all sorts of resentment in your head, call her/him names in your head even if you don't say them outright?
If that's the case, than I'm not a nice person.
and I know I'm not alone on that one