Lil thanks for the link. I read a few posts looking for some options to a regular SL and stumbled on to the URL's in my thread.

It's pretty much just where I am now, too
When I read things like that, implying nothing has really changed, it is sad.

Like I said, sometimes I go ahead and take things I want, like sex and affection. I assuming BB is not in the mood but I can do something she likes so the exchange has some benefits for her. Other times I can't do it because it because of her resistance.

I included the finger link, knowing your bf's ick factor but thought some other guy might get some benefit from the woman's information. I know I had almost no clue as to what to do because I think many women won't say what they like and only speak up with what they don't like. I only have firsthand information from BB in this area. She gives very little feedback so don't count me as an expert.

But the cycle of arousal, physical sensations, moving to the bedroom-- all of that was absent for both of us.
Gosh, I am sorry to hear that. The TV programs I say about implants never went into that part of the process.

guy who repressed his sex drive in his marriage and now can't seem to find it. Worth reading.
I will read it. It better not rub off on me. I am getting there some days.

Lou