re Lil Well, I've stopped asking for personal-relational stuff because of his reactions, but maybe it would be a good exercise for me to just come out of the bushes and bare my wants.

That is something like me saying sometimes I just have to take what I want from the R. I don't take if it truly hurts BB.


So, yes Lil. Ask for what you want. I know the feeling of
As you look down this list, you’ll notice that all of these things have something to do with avoiding uncomfortable feelings (e.g. anxiety about not feeling in control) or avoiding an unwanted outcome.

Lou