You're right, honey-- we have no way of comprehending the kind of pain that a lifetime of addiction is trying to cover up. Interesting that your dad requested dirt... bf adores farming and gardening. I joke that the perfect Christmas gift for him is a bag of manure.
I do validate his sobriety and tell him I'm very proud of him. I think both of us have a good understanding of what a big deal it is, but you're right, I need to keep reminding myself that it truly is a miracle. Thanks.
