HMMM this is most interesting for me to read. This whole thing on secrets and trust. I think I am a step or two behind you Zedman. Will post this next bit to my own thread too and see what come of it.
Today is the day that H is going out for dinner with his very small working group for the big projecxt he was working on in which the FC(Fantasy Chick) is included along with the female confidante friend, a third regular workie, the boss and one other guy. sigh... They are going to a nice restaurant early after work, and I have this urge to do all kinds of nutbar things- calling his work and leaving an anonymous message for FC that she has to be somewher else at dinner time, calling H and telling me I also have a meeting at same restaurant with some friends and I'll see him there... to just freaking showing up, and or asking him to not go. ( too late for the last option...) He did't tell me until this AM that he'd be late.
The good thing... he told me where he was going and that it was the working group. I have never asked who was on the working group but did see a list of members. I don't even know if he knows that I know! Is this a secret or just an omission of fact? Do I ask after the fact and see if he tells me? I am now soooo wound up.
So.... will get through this day somehow and will reflect on secrets, and trust as part of my homework... nice thread Zed.. (poet and doesn't know it!)
