H is acting distant, irritable and controlling again. Never mentions working on M, tried to avoid me and push my buttons this holiday weekend.
I acknowledge to him that I am working on the things he said was important to him in a marriage (physical fitness, conversation, doing things together) but it is hard when he is not trying to meet my needs (affection, sex, loving, caring acts). Plus he is back to listing all the things I need to do better (clean house, discipline kids etc).
Is this normal or is he just half trying or not trying at all?
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wed2alien
Both 49, M 23 years 3 teens April 2004- bomb, moved out April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!! Nov 2006-- Moved home May 2008- Things still getting better
