Is this how it begins?

[cat03]

Hello, you got so many questions and aprehensions that MC is the best way to go, he's actually asking to go! dont' miss such a chance. Yes, at the beginning it is a little rough (specially for men to open up) but with the right person you both can find that special bond you once had.

Anyways, we now do yoga together, something we wouldnt' have done before, plan to go wine tasting (a first) and other stuff we never did. Think of stuff like that, your kids are older, you dont' have to worry about babysitting like me, that' one of my H's gripes, we can barely go anywhere because we need a sitter for 2.

Do something just the two of you, think outside the box, late night downtown walks, bed & breakfast by a lake, things like that, something out of character.

You need to talk out your fear, our MC sessions have help me a great deal, get a phone book or check out online, I'm a christian and have found that I feel more confortable with licenced pastoral counceling, the person I have now is awesome.

You've come a long way, dont' let fear ruin all your hard work, you have gone through a lot, he's back and you deserve to be happy, keep it up)))))))