Jamesjohn,

Thanks so much for your reply.

Your questions are great ones and those I will bring up the next time we talk about our R.

I assume I shouldn't bring up R talks? I did ask him yesterday how he felt about our talk the night before and he said he was in a good place and wants to stay there. His head was clear and was able to concentrate at work. He is looking at all the positives in our R, instead of the negatives.

I just want him to stay in this frame of mind. I did ask him that night what "want to try again meant" and he said, "we can make this M work. It will be OK."

Thanks again,
wed


wed2alien

Both 49, M 23 years
3 teens
April 2004- bomb, moved out
April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time
May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!!
Nov 2006-- Moved home
May 2008- Things still getting better