So, Monday night, he insists on talking to me, all R talk, was remorseful for the 1st time in 2 yrs, said he "wants to try again", had never heard that before.
What do you think that "wants to try again" means to him? What, in his mind, would you both be doing to move things in a better direction for your relationship? What would this look like?
This could be a great place to get started working on your communication. This is something that could be done in a non-threatening way, without making him feel trapped. It would be interesting to hear what his thoughts on this are, and could help take you towards the future, instead of making him feel like he has to defend the past.
To have fun before we get into serious marriage counseling.
Excellent idea!! What would "fun" look like, to both of you?
Congratulations! You are very wise in wanting to take things slowly for now. Keep up the great work!!!
JJ
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