quote:Originally posted by Zebra: As she was leaving to go, she said, "uh, we'll be likely going out for a beer after playing, is that ok?"
To me, this is huge! Y'know what it tells me? That she trusts that you won't get your underwear in a knot over this. She trusts you enough to ask you a question that you could say no to, but she fully expects you to say OK.
In other words, she doesn't view you as a roadblock to life's simple little pleasures. She doesn't have to be defensive.
I don't think she was keeping secrets per se. She was just avoiding the hassles of arguing over it. Seems like she doesn't feel the need to do this any more.
