Thanks for stopping by, everybody (Kent, t, dar, e, tree). I've been working on stuff, and it's about time for an update. I'll post one soon.
Biggest development is we started with new counselor yesterday. She's WONDERFUL!!! She works on a Neuro-Linguistic Programming model, and specializes in families, couples, relationships, and intimacy. W likes her, I like her. First home work was to read Don Miguel Ruiz's "The Four Agreements" (one of my favorites), and "The Mastery of Love". Then a big questionaire designed to show her and us how much we really know about the spouse and how they think, in contrast to how much we "think" we know. It's full of triplets of questions on many topics. Triplet always runs like this.... "What you think..., What you think spouse thinks you think..., what you think spouse thinks...." Forcing us to get in their head. Interesting to see where this goes.
