hey Zed... so... we're BOTH still here!

Become the OM... works for me. good idea there TBone.. (steakman)
If smarmy sales guy thing works... go out buy a few new sales type shirts and wow her!! Or at least make her wonder. [Eek!]

My h still has his moments... not hangovers but certainly times when he distances. The key is not to walk on eggshells around it, but to do what you want to enjoy and live your life and let her figure out her own issues. If she can't ... well it's really not your issue is it??

More than a year later and we are still at it. No fat lady singing at either of our respective abodes. so far... [Smile]

birthday this weekend. remember last year's blow out? Was gonna do same again but different year and with my mom gone,.. I will wait a bit...

caught up with you again for the short term - age wise that is! [Razz]