Interesting stuff about how our spouses can’t understand our feelings. As always, I try to look at the flip side of the coin. Can we/do we empathize with them? I’m not condoning an A or EA, but we get frustrated when they “just don’t get it” It just makes me wonder if they’re thinking the same thing about us.
Tree knows that I’ve tortured myself a lot over that one. I don’t know how much figuring we can do without driving ourselves (to quote tree) nutbar.
