Zebra, It is always nice to see things turning around. I really don't have any advice to say do this or that. My H and I were separated for 3 months. He was SOOOO indifferent about our relationship. It just hurt me soooo much. We went to this weekend. Retrouvaille.org it turned things around for us.. He went from indifferent to moving back in and we have felt closer then ever in our marriage. i am not sure whether I am suppose to tell you here to try something other then DB but I feel anything that may work we should let each other know about it. There is info on the website about it so if she may go you can't loose anything by going to the program you can gain a whole a lot.
