OK people! I have no idea what a "troll" is but I assume it's not good. For everyone's info, this just happened two days ago. She went to her mothers, not to her own apt. We are not at the point where she is going to hook up with some guy from the grocery store. ( Nice story though ). We are still working together every day and she knows that I know what I've done to her. She knows that I'm looking for a therapist and there is no talk of D yet. She knows about my family background and understands why I'm not a good communicator with her. She doesn't like it, but she knows. Why you are jumping down my throat I don't know. I came on this BB to find some answers or some good questions or something and most of you have brought up some good stuff. But don't take your frustration with your other half out on me! I have enough of that already. If you don't think my posts are real; don't respond. I'm honest when I say I would like to fix this and that's what I'm going to try to do. But my H thinks that I'm the one that has to fix it. Just me. I think it will take her getting involved to and maybe she will when she sees me working on it. There were so many questions I have no idea if I answered any of them. Sorry.
