I have to admit the troll thought crossed my mind, too, but I think we have to assume he is on the level until evidence appears otherwise.

Also, ladies, as much as I want to let him know exactly how much his wife is hurting, what I want EVEN MORE is to understand what is going on in his head. So, to concur with NHT, let's not run him off by heaping even more guilt on his head. I think he already feels bad... the fact that he came here and walked out of the bushes into the clearing where we could grill him with questions shows desperation and guts, too.

Photo, please address some of the specific questions we have asked, and several of us have mentioned the madonna/whore concept-- that you marry the madonna, but you can't have sex with her. As you can tell we are all ears, metaphorically speaking.