Quote: Let us not dump on him. Mojo - your post could be interpreted as venting your frustration.
You could probably say that about 99% of my posts in general. (LOL) I admit I was trying to shock the guy into action. His situation is pretty serious. His wife has already moved out. She is a woman who wants sex and hasn't had any in 5 years. If she is reasonably attractive and not positively mired in a pit of low self-esteem due to her SSM, a scenario like that I have described could happen quite easily. It seems to me that PhotoGuy is mired in a Walter Mitty fantasy land of women he would like to have sex with precisely because he can't or hasn't yet had sex with them. I am definitely in the "takes one to know one" category when it comes to active fantasy lives so I was just trying to give PhotoGuy a sort of reality check. Though of course I did this by projecting a fantasy life onto his wife based on the assumption that any woman who is willing to leave a relationship due to lack of sex certainly must have a sexual fantasy life. PhotoGuy does not seem to be completely cognizant of this since he said that he believed that she had simply sublimated her sex drive into her business life.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
