We don't get many LD men in this forum. Let us not dump on him. Mojo - your post could be interpreted as venting your frustration.

Photoguy - I have to admire you. Unlike so many Low Desire people you have actually looked at your actions and your feelings and tried to understand them. You've also tried to understand them in the context of your marriage. You also appear willing to work within your situation to make things better.

I'm also envious. I wish I had as much control over my marriage or that my spouse were as desirous of me as your spouse is of you.

I hope you figure this one out and are able to put the bliss back into your marriage.