There really had never been a time when we were having great sex. Even in the begining. And then it just fizzled to nothing. My fault. I'm just not interested and I think it's just with her. I see women all the time and I think how I would love to have sex with them. But don't all married men think that?. I tend to lose interest when we get to know each other well, so maybe it's an intimacy thing. I don't really know and at times I don't really care. The real question is.. Do I really want to have sex with my wife? Do I ?? The answer now is no, I don't really care but I don't want to get a D because I liked the rest of our life. Although that's been put on hold now too, so.... What to do?
How do I view sex. I used to love it. When I was dating other women, we would go to dinner or whatever and my goal was to get her back to my place. If I really don't want to have sex with my wife then shouldn't I get a D and let her have the rest of her life back. Even though I'm 52 and she's 51. Why get a D at this point in our lives?? Should she be more understanding? She says no! She's put up with it for years and if I don't do something, then....
