There are times I would LOVE it if my bf saw me as a sex object! Not all the time, but some of the time. I would love to see a look in my bf's eyes every now and then that tells me he is overcome with lust for me. If you've followed threads by karen, InHerJourney, Lust for Life, and Mojo Returns, you'll see other women who would love for their partners to be more sexually aggressive.
How do you view sex? What is the role of sex in a marriage or long term partnership?
Was there a time, or maybe even an event, five years ago when you did come on to your wife in a very lustful way and she seemed put off by that?
You said this is a pattern for you... can you identify when this changes for you in the relationship... when you lose interest in your gf/wife sexually?
