The rest of the stuff we do together is always fun and as far a s I know we both enjoy it. We went to Paris two years ago and had a great time. And, no, there was no sex. Yes, I know not even in Paris. Yes, I love her. Yes I find her attractive and so do others as far as I know. Why do I want to be with her? I love her even without the sex and the rest of our life is nice. We accomplish things together in the business and our personal lives and I like that. About 5 years ago she was diagnosed with panic attacks and she's takes Celexa. Since she never brought up the sex thing I just thought she had lost her SD due to the meds. But I guess not. To tell you the truth it didn't bother me if she had. After 10 years of marriage, don't men, and women for that matter, look at other people they see in stores, etc. as possible sex partners without actually ever doing anything about it?? I was never wanting for female company for most of my adult life. I would go out with a different woman every weekend, maybe two and if we had sex it was great. Maybe I saw them again, maybe I never saw them again. That's what I was used to. Maybe that's the problem. I never knew any of them really well and it was easier for me. I don't want to make love to my wife even though I love her, I just want to have sex with her. I know how bad that sounds. I'm going to talk to a professional so maybe that will help.
