It was probably from him. I just remember that was the title of the chapter and I could see my wife all over that subject. The bad thing is that it takes a lot of profesional help to get over it, if that is even possible.
Something else that goes along with this is that my wife actually became "Mother" to her younger brothers and sisters and I wonder if she continues this until today, she sees herself as a MOTHERLY role, and the "lovers" role is completely out of her mindset, and worse yet, that she really PREFERS the motherly role to any real relationship with her husband.
