She was married once before but I think sex was fine. She tends to be a control freak and that goes at work too. The feeling of being #2 at work with her being more in charge, doesn't help. I am a guy afterall and like being the decision maker. While I have some control, she is #1. And with her sex life being so bad, she says that hasn't helped as far as listening to what I have to say on the job. So I have had to retool my previous career to do part time to get me out of the shop. Is me not wanting to have sex with her mean that I'm just not interested in having sex with HER???? Or what is it? Can I do something to make myself feel more like having sex with her? I think about having it with other women all the time. I don't do it, but I think about it. That can't be good, but I know all men do that. And probably other women too!!!
