It's me again. The more I read on this forum, the more I see I'm not alone. My wife thinks it's not normal; and maybe it isn't, but she can't even conceive of it as near normal or happening to guys! Maybe I shuld get the book. Read the first chapter and it made sense. My problem is Am I interested in my wife that way? I love her very much in every other way, were good friend, we had a good relationship at work, but this issue had made her resentful and it has carried over to our work life. I need help!!!