I'm new here. My wife and I haven't had sex for 5 years and before that it wasn't great. I'm just not interested. She has moved out, is not talking the big D, but says I need to figure it out because she can't take the pain of rejection anymore. For years she seemed OK, but obviously wasn't. We were so busy at our company, I guess she did that instead of think of it. I'm the guy, I should want it all the time, but dont. I think about other women all the time, but don't act on it. I think I have a problem with sex when I get to know the person. I can have sex with a stranger, but with my wife of 10 years, nothing! BTW, I have not been unfaithful even once! But I think about it. When I think back, this has happened before with girlfriends in the past. As soon as we get to know each other well, I can't think about touching them. Is it an intimacy thing?? Can I fix it??? We will get a D if I can't fix it.
