Z, We know what you would prefer and what you consider as progress with the R, but thats not the issue here and now. Stop obsessing about the 3 month thing cus I'm here to tell you, she could split tomorrrow. The 3 month promise is not cast in stone in either direction.
You are pushing way to hard for stuff that W is in no position to answer. Set smaller goals. I reiterate the question I suggest you ask at the C session.
************************************************ If you get the opportunity during a C session, ask W what would be the first sign, to her, that things were improving. ************************************************ Don't ask for any more than that. Don't confuse her with "TOO MUCH". Remember, she is already confused. You really don't want to add to that or come off pushy. She needs to feel no pressure from you. If she can't answer that simple question, aske her to think on it and get back to you. If she can't answer that simple question, you will know just how confused she really is.
