H and I have been doing much, much better lately. DBing has saved my marriage. I don't think you ever reach a point where you've "arrived" or anything, but I do believe that we are now at a good healing place. We spent the weekend together last week and it felt great...laughing, talking, touching. He's been holding my hand, etc. We get along so much better now.
So my question now, Thursday night there is an event that he wants to go to (car show). Some of his friends will be there and this is the first chance he's had to go to this event. He asked me if I want to go. It really doesn't make much difference to me. I go to car shows with him, but not out of any real enthusiasm for cars. I actually have class (I'm finishing my degree at night) that night, but can get out of it if I need to.
So, should I go with him or go to class? I don't know. I've been afraid of him spending time with his friends and then thinking maybe being single is better than being married. But I also been concerned about him thinking why we always do everything together.
I just can't figure out how to apply DB to this. Any thoughts?
