Lee,

If your H says he doesn't know what his needs are, then it's true. I can guarantee it.

Seems to be a man thing...

W: What are you thinking?
H: Dunno.
W: Really, you must be thinking of something.
H: Dunno.

Y'know something, Lee? In this little sketch. the H really doesn't know!

Y'know something else? If the W persists, he'll get peeved. You're absolutely right about that.

So my advice is not to probe, but if he gives you any hints, ask about 'em. But don't probe TOO much.

Andy

Andy