**** if she literally has the two relationships compartmentalized to an extent where she is simply unhappy in one and happy in the other.

Just read your situation...She has to "compartmentalized" to keep her sanity.

She has two options
1) find a reason to fight with you to justify her actions and convince herself that she is in a horrible marriage

2) "compartmentalized" to free her from the guilt she is feeling.

Or it could be a combination of both.

Last edited by JokerMan; 07/23/06 04:47 AM.