Hi RC:

I have been following your threads for quite awhile. On that last bit about on the verge of ending OM issue.. I dont think I would believe it either. Sounds to me like just one in a series of "things" she uses to justify in her mind what she is doing to you is "acceptable"... and more than likely others will follow. Also helps her negate some of her guilt and inner anxiety too !

Keep hanging in there. You are doing an incredible job with your sitch !

Tom