W just called me. Said she's been thinking about something - is uncomfortable going to dinner and the play tomorrow night with our friends, so why don't I take my mom as partial thanks for watching the girls this past weekend. We have season tickets with these friends, and they both know about the A - one is the good friend I've been talking to (the only one of two people that I've talked to that we both know, the other being a coworker she'll likely never see), and he's told his W. Not sure how this is going to play out for the rest of the season, assuming W isn't about to file for D.
I still am wary of these movements by W. It's now quite out of character for her to have brought this stuff up. But, it's very much in character for her to have bottled stuff up and let it explode in several bullet points at once. In fact, I talked to my IC about this, and I think my W is at least one order of magnitude worse in being passive-aggressive than I am. She bottles things up so much more than me, particularly now that she's built the wall, and when it comes out it EXPLODES... and it's usually about several disconnected things at once. The last time it happened was right before d-day, and boy was it a doosy. Like I think I said before, should we continue with this M, W is going to have a lot of her own issues to work through, and I haven't seen a willingness of her to do that. Although, she has said she's planning on seeing her own IC (said twice in the last 2 months).
With that said, I'm trying to not think about it too much, because I've got entirely too much to deal with at work... and I want to have a good time with my friends tonight (four of us going, now) as it's sort of them taking me out for my bday.
