W has been sleeping clothed for probably the last month. We've been comfortable naked around each other since early on in our relationship, but now she's rarely naked around me.
I really don't feel like I'm even my W's friend, anymore. She's becoming more and more distant as time goes on. She avoids my touch. We don't talk about anything of any significance, except family topics. She no longer sends me random messages throughout the day (hasn't for a long time, actually). Before she met OM, I was her best friend - now I'm not her friend at all. I can't see how even roommates live so disconnected like this. Is this at all typical?
I'm getting closer to going for the final ultimatum every day. I just can't seem to detach, and the more I think about how to go about detaching, the more it seems like pure and simple denial. I loose respect for my W every day that she continues this A, in front of my face, showing how little respect she has for me or our family. I do feel this is an MLC, which I need to read up on. I can't let go of my building anger - I just don't know how, and I feel I've tried a number of things that should have helped. I feel I need to talk to W, but doubt the sanity of doing so both in my current state and with the "don’t bring up the A" talk in DB.
