RC, you may not have ever said you snooping is controlled by invisible aliens or anything, but I got from reading your posts that you felt like you couldn't control it, when in fact, you can. You can call it an addiction, and if it is, and you see it as such, then what help have you sought out to remove this addiction from your life. You know, the first step is admitting you have a problem, lol.
Anyway, I DO sound like you're in control, as always, and my comments about you needing to own your decisions may have been off. I think you DO do that for the most part, so maybe I should have left it at thinking you need to make DIFFERENT decisions.