Vee, thanks for the update. The one good thing to be said for having it over and done with is that you at least know what's yours and you don't have to wait for the other shoe to drop. There will be more to this story as life goes on but keep the focus on yourself and your kids and all will be well. It's not going to be fun for the OW and your XXX once they actually come out into the world and see what's really going on. Take care. Wonder